Wednesday, November 3, 2021 -seeking Approval

Deep within each person is the desire for approval from others – particularly from those we consider significant in our lives.  This need for approval is even deeper in those who have been misunderstood, hurt, or rejected by others.  Often it produces a drivenness in the person for approval from others in order to feel good about themselves.  They may co-dependently try to care for the needs of others and do things other’s desire, even though they know it will harm their own self-worth. 

God wants to help us find a new way forward.  It begins with knowing that our deepest need for approval is met by God, and not by others who can be fickle or uncaring. 

God has chosen us, given us life, and called us back from dark and unhealthy places.  God has given us a story to tell others that reflects what a powerful God He is and what dramatic changes He makes in the lives of those He has rescued.  We share our stories, not because we are perfect, but because we are loved by the God who created us and made us feel more secure than we ever thought possible.  God has work for each of us to do today that will bless others and give us deep satisfaction.  God created us for this.  God wants us to share with others the love and grace we have found in Him. 

As we serve God according to His plan and purpose, He will affirm us in what we are doing, regardless of whether others notice, or how they may respond.

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I know I have nothing to prove in order to receive from You. I belong to You.  You are my Abba Father.  You love me.  You accept me.  Help me to become more conscious of Your love and affirmation for me and look only to You for approval.  Amen

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