Uselessness And Self-pity Disappear

On pages 83-84 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous we read twelve promises that will happen as we diligently work the twelve steps.  The question is asked: - “Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us – sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them.”

Many of us have wasted years and even decades in addiction.  By the time we get to recovery our bodies are tired and worn out, our minds are fragile, and it takes a long time for us to work out new ways of doing things and to learn new skills.  We often feel like the opportunity to be successful and productive has passed us by, but the sixth promise in the Big Book speaks directly to this time as it says, “That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will disappear.”

This promise is echoed in one of God’s many promises to us.  God’s plan for our lives will be effective the moment we put our trust in Him and follow His ways.  God knows our past, our present, and our future, and will work everything together for our good because of His great love for us.  God appointed us to be saved and has a purpose for each of our lives. 

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  (Jeremiah 29:11 NIV)

How does God do it?  How does it all come about?  We don’t know, and we don’t have to know.  Our part is to get to know God, follow His guidance, stay strong in His love, and be available.  God will teach us everything we need to know and promises we will experience a fruitful and fulfilling life.

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I wasted so much time in addiction and unhealthy life practices.  Help me to believe Your promise that You can use me in a way that blesses others and fills me with joy and satisfaction.  Show me my part and help me to fulfill Your plan for my life.  Help me to do the next right thing and leave the rest with You.  Amen

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