How are we to deal with a person who falsely accuses us of something we did not do? We may react in anger, use strong language, or just mutter something under our breath and angrily walk away. Sometimes we counter a false accusation with an accusation of our own or spread gossip about the person involved. We may also stay silent but hold resentment. What would be God's way of handling this situation so that we may keep moving forward on our healing journey?
Give a kind and respectful answer and keep your conscience clear. This way you will make people ashamed for saying bad things about your good conduct as a follower of Christ. You are better off to obey God and suffer for doing right than to suffer for doing wrong. (1 Peter 3:16-17 CEV)
Our priority must be to live in a way that honours God and others. When we are accused of something, there may be a "kernel of truth" in what the person is saying. We may need to take ownership of the fact that we have wounded others and resolve to make amends for the hurt we have caused.
God's word instructs us to give an answer with gentleness and respect. We need to take time to settle down and truthfully explain to the person where we are at. They should also be given the opportunity to respectfully explain how they formed the opinion that caused the accusation.
A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. (Proverbs 15:1 NIV)
Even if the one accusing us refuses to accept the truth, we are encouraged to stay in obedience to God in both our attitude and our actions. If we react according to God’s principles, God will bring comfort and healing, and the truth that we know in our hearts will set us free. In the end, we need to leave what others mistakenly believe about us in God’s care and watch Him work to bring light into the situation.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I know I am sensitive to the criticism and accusation of others especially when they judge me based on my past behaviour. Forgive me for any resentment that I may hold against another and help me to forgive as You have forgiven me. Help me to be kind to others and to treat everyone with gentleness and respect. Amen
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