Cooperation

It’s not uncommon in our society these days to have our character shaped by isolation and getting our own way in whatever way we can. 

It's challenging to live in agreement with people who have ideas and ways of doing things that are different from our way.  For healthy relationships to be formed and maintained we need to develop the character quality of co-operation.

Live in harmony with each other.  Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people.  And don’t think you know it all! Romans 12:16

Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. Ephesians 4:3

When we co-operate, we work together towards a common goal.  It doesn't mean we all do or say the same thing. We each have our distinctive personality and role to play but we take time to listen to one another, to support each other, and together find a way to make things better for everyone concerned. 

Co-operation requires that we learn from others by sometimes letting go of our usual way of thinking and behaving and try something new.  At times it will be important for us to not hide in silence but rather to ask a valid question or voice our opinion about a matter in a way that brings some fresh insight to the product or event.

Developing a habit of co-operatively dealing with others will require us to grow and get past easily hurt feelings and approval seeking.  It may also require laying down a bullying attitude or offensive words. 

Loving God, you made us to live in co-operation with one another. Forgive us for the many ways we have been hard to get along with, voicing our own opinions and desiring that our will gets done. 

We ask for Your help to co-operate and build healthy relationships with others. We need You to strengthen and encourage us in these efforts.  We ask Your Holy Spirit to teach and guide us in all our ways.  Amen

We may not get it right at every point today but just seeking and making an effort to co-operate will go a long way in helping us to have a better day.