MAKING AMENDS

In our life in addiction, we offended many people – family members, friends, and even strangers.  We lived to meet the needs of our addiction and were concerned only for ourselves. We neglected others’ needs.  We lied, cheated, and even stole from those around us.  We made enemies by our actions.  We avoided people because of our behaviour.

When we are ready, we will make a list of all the people we have harmed and then begin to consider how and when we might make amends to them.  Because of the impact our addictive behaviour had on them, we may be fearful of making amends to some of those on our list.  We fear they will not be as willing as God to forgive us for what we have done. 

O God have mercy on me, for people are hounding me. My foes attack me all day long.  I am constantly hounded by those who slander me, and many are boldly attacking me.  But when I am afraid, I will put my trust in you.  I praise God for what he has promised.  I trust in God, so why should I be afraid?  What can mere mortals do to me? (Psalm 56:1-4 NLT)

In these challenging moments, like the writer of the above Psalm, we will put our trust in God and say: “I praise God for what He has promised. I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? What can mere mortals do to me?”

When we put our hand into the hand of God, He will strengthen and support us as we become willing to make amends to those we have harmed.  God is always with us, we need never face our problems alone.

See, God has come to save me.  I will trust in him and not be afraid.  The Lord God is my strength and my song; he has given me victory.  (Isaiah 12:2 NLT)

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, Thank You for Your mercy and unfailing love for me. When I am afraid to complete any of the assigned tasks in the steps of my recovery program, I will trust You to help me do what is required.  Amen