PEACE IS POSSIBLE

When we eventually arrive at that place where we live in peace with those around us, we may still encounter some people who are hostile towards us.  Despite our caring comments and gestures, they insult us or accuse us and just go out of their way to irritate or hurt us.  How should we respond?  How can we maintain peace? God knows these situations will arise and so we are given some helpful advice in the Bible about living at peace with everyone. 

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.  (Romans 12:18 NIV)

The first phrase in the above verse is: "If it is possible."  This indicates that there may be times when peace with another person is not possible. The person may not be interested in a peaceful environment, or they may even enjoy causing harm to others. What are we choosing to do?  Our responsibility is to maintain peace in our own heart.  We remember and hold fast to God’s kindness to us and keep our thoughts filled with kindness, goodness and forgiveness towards the other person. 

But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere. And those who are peacemakers will plant seeds of peace and reap a harvest of righteousness. (James 3:17-18 NLT)

The second phrase in the same verse is, "as far as it depends on you.". We are not meant to co-dependently prop up someone in their sinful or harmful behaviour or attitude.  We can walk away from a person who is belligerent, but we must be careful to do so with peace in our own heart.  Irritation and condemnation need to go.  God’s healing and peace need to be received so the effects of the hostile environment can be soothed.  When we have settled our hearts, we should pray for the other person that they would grow in grace and the knowledge of our Lord Jesus and receive His grace, mercy and peace.

Prayer:  Heavenly Father, I want to live at peace with everyone.  Help me to resolve conflict with others when it is possible, and if it depends on me.  My desire is always to be peaceable, loving and gentle.  As You have given grace generously to me, help me to give grace generously to those I find hard to love and not expect anything in return.  Amen