THE PATHWAY OF PEACE

Each day in recovery is a new opportunity to respond to God’s call to live with humility, desire reconciliation in relationships, walk in forgiveness, and focus on cleaning our side of the street. 

Honesty, balance, and realism are essential tools to keep at hand when we are seeking peace in all our relationships.  When we have a problem with others we should not lean towards self-righteous justification.  In those moments we should remember the Golden Rule, “Do to others as you would like them to do to you.” (Luke 6:31 NLT) 

God wants to teach us about ourselves as we humbly bring our past, present, and future to Him and have a desire to learn His ways.  The list of people we have harmed is evidence that we have failed them by doing things our way.  Humility says we have much to learn.  Becoming willing to make amends is an expression of our deep desire to do all that is in our power to make peace and open paths for healing and reconciliation.

When we work a Step 8 or Step 9, we ask God to show us where we may have caused harm.  We take responsibility for our part in the harm that was caused.  This attitude of respect for the dignity of others and sincere sorrow for any actions that hurt them is what we need to demonstrate in both our words and our manner as we make amends and seek their forgiveness.

Because of God’s tender mercy, the morning light from heaven is about to break upon us, to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, and to guide us to the path of peace.  (Luke 1:78-79 NLT)

As we put our trust in God and ask Him to guide us on this path of peace, we will experience great burdens being lifted from our shoulders and amazing peace filling our hearts.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, I have so much to learn.  Help me to be considerate towards those individuals I have harmed and not simply want what is best for me. My desire is that any actions I take will have the effect of healing and restoration in my relationships.  Amen