Meditations on "Relationship"

Many of the events in our lives that contributed to us becoming dependent on substances or unhealthy relationships were traumatic and caused us to retreat into hiding.

As we go forward in recovery we have come to realize that we are accountable for the actions we have done, the behaviour that has impacted our relationships, and the problems we created throughout our addiction.

Of all the four seasons of the year, spring seems to describe our new life in recovery the best.

Whether in Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous, Tradition Three highlights that the only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking or using.

Going forward in recovery is about becoming mature and doing things differently.

Those who make steady progress in recovery and find one day becoming one month, one year, and then one decade, are those who remain focused and give careful attention each day to what works.

After years of listening to other’s harsh and condemning words about us, it’s wonderful to have an opportunity to experience the affirmation of God and to be reminded that as we walk with Him, He is pleased with us.

Jealousy is a negative and damaging emotion. It’s the feeling we have when something we believe should be ours is given to someone else.

The book of Proverbs in the Bible is a collection of wise sayings for us to learn and put into practice.

When we first come into recovery our expectation for a life free from crippling dependencies is huge.

When we come to the point of making amends, fear can overwhelm us as we think about those we have harmed.

Little by little as we walk with God and work the steps, we gain new information about ourselves and how we relate to other people.